One day closer
Eloise, our 7-month old, is still going through her 4-month sleep regression. Which means she’s not sleeping through the night. Which means mum and dad aren’t either. This is a challenge we know will end but we don’t know when (just like looking for a new job). For me at least, I find it very […]
People don’t read information
People don’t read information Here’s something that will save you a lot of heartache. Don’t assume that people will read the information you give them (especially the key points). You absolutely must give people all the information. But many won’t read it. And fewer won’t read it fully. And those that do won’t retain it. […]
Don’t give an out
I’ve shared before that one of my main strengths is HARMONY. This is where I strive for consensus and turn conflict into common ground. The downside to this strength is being overly accommodating. I want to come across as easy and agreeable to work with, because the most important thing to me is moving forward […]
The write stuff
I think an underrated advantage for your career is penning your ideas for a public medium*. This isn’t just so people will know you more. Or so your company benefits. It’s simply this. The act of writing makes you think about what’s worth saying. You may not think this is much. But when was the […]
Is news entertainment?
I have a controversial opinion about the news which is strongly challenged when I share it. These days, I believe news is another form of entertainment. News has traditionally been seen as an unbiased source of important information. When I’ve shared this opinion with others who consume news regularly, they can admit that news outlets […]
The new norm
I remember when I upgraded from a single bed to a double bed. I instantly knew that my world had changed. When I was in a single bed, I had no idea that sleeping on a double bed was better. But as soon as I did, I didn’t want to go back. Why am I […]
Writing blogs in my sleep
Many of these blogs I write while drifting off to sleep. Seriously. I go to bed with a topic in my head, and then I’ll allow my subconscious to do the work. In the morning the blog will be fully formed. It’s scary good, but lots of people have done the same. Roger Bannister visualised […]
Respect the ask
When you ask someone for a favour where you’re the main beneficiary in the exchange, their terms should take absolute priority over yours. Give them complete control to set the time, place and conditions, and then do everything you can to meet them on their terms. Anything less fails to fully respect the ask you’re […]
The “Getting going” tax
I’d love this post to serve as a lightbulb moment for you if you’ve been holding onto an ambition for a while. For this blog, I’ll use the example of getting a job, but it applies to any ambition you have (big or small). When professionals approach me for coaching to get a new job, […]
Pack up your (remote) desk
I’ve been working remotely for 6 years now. While I don’t have a formal office, I still find it really valuable to “pack up” my desk at the end of each day. You may wonder why, given how light my setup is. But there are two reasons I do this, which I hope you’ll find […]