Testing clarity
The clearer we are about what we want, the more likely we are to achieve it. The problem though is sometimes we believe we are clear when really we’re not. So when you want to make a change in your life, share your ambition with 2 or 3 people. Then ask them to share back […]
It’s your responsibility to follow-up
When dealing with others, we can be disappointed when expectations are set but not met. The reality though is everyone has their own agenda and everyone is constantly prioritising different parts of their lives. So assuming that someone will get back to you in a timely manner can lead to a lot of missed opportunities. […]
Here’s a million dollars
Growth is front-of-mind for many business owners, but many struggle with defining how they want to grow. They’re either juggling lots of ideas and not sure which strategy to choose. Or they may be feeling restricted and can’t see viable options. During these times coaching business owners I find the following thought exercise really helpful: […]
So you want to write a book?
Many people want to write a book but are unsure of the publishing process. It’s actually super-easy to self-publish your book and have it available all over the world. I launched the Quarter Life Framework through Kindle Direct Publishing. The platform guides you through uploading your draft and cover images in the correct format. You […]
Separate apples from oranges
A common pitfall when making decisions is comparing options that are actually from different categories. A good example is when people are thinking about entering the property market but are unsure if they are looking for a home or an investment. Choosing where to live to suit your lifestyle is very different to choosing where […]
Being in synch
Bec and I have done a lot to prioritise our relationship, such that it’s become uncanny how often we will share the same thought in response to something. Sharing the same thoughts is wonderful for communication, but we’re conscious of how it can limit our perspectives. We are also highly aware of how powerfully this […]
When commitment creates dissatisfaction
We can hold onto a desire to change something in our life for a long time. But once we commit to change, dissatisfaction with our current lifestyle will creep in. If we’re not careful, this dissatisfaction will come as an unwelcome surprise and decrease the momentum we’re trying to build. So before you commit to […]
Virtual landlines
The landline telephone is fast becoming a relic as we communicate online and through mobile. Though when it comes to business, there is value in having a landline number. There is more credibility when you’re calling from a landline number than a mobile number (or worse, no caller ID). So if you don’t have a […]
Accepting help
It’s amazing when someone offers to support your initiatives and ventures. In response to this kindness, we may feel inclined to allow an open invitation for their support. We don’t want to seem ungrateful, and we don’t want to restrict the value of their contribution. However, the best thing you can do with their offer […]
Discipline
Discipline is simply the act of keeping to your promises. Especially the ones you make to yourself. .