When defining what you want in life, it’s good to identify your must-haves and your nice-to-haves, but it’s also important to know your hard nos.
These are the conditions you wouldn’t want to accept under any circumstances.
You may think this shouldn’t need to be said.
But it’s surprising how much we can find ourselves compromising when our hard nos aren’t front-of-mind.
If you define your hard nos in advance, you remove the need to think of them with each subsequent decision you make, which also removes the risk of you inadvertently accepting something you don’t want at all.
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