This is a great question to ask for anyone that is in a relationship or wants to maintain a wonderful connection with someone close to you.
Arguments and disagreements are inevitable when we deal with others.
The problem though is when we attach a greater level of importance to our own opinion.
Either we zero-in on one element but lose sight of the bigger picture. Or we may be coming from a completely different perspective than the other person, and both viewpoints may be equally valid.
And ultimately, during the very rare times when you are unequivocally correct, what satisfaction have you ultimately gained?
Just ask yourself.
Do you want to win an argument? Or do you want to be in love?