Esther Perel is a relationship expert who has a fabulous piece of advice that Bec and I use a lot.
It can be hard sometimes to show a partner that you care and that you’re there, particularly if you sense there’s something on their mind but you’re not quite sure how to lean in.
Simply knock on the door or the wall and ask, “Hello, Room Service! Any special requests?”
Every time we do this it makes the other person smile. Sometimes it’s followed up by a specific request (usually a cup of tea). But the message is always received – I’m here for you and I care about you.
And this doesn’t just apply to relationships. It’s just as powerful when you ask this of yourself. Every now and then, take a moment to yourself and ask, “Any special requests?”